edz. finally

hehehhe sure dia mara once die tau i upload gambar ni. Alhamdulillah for the hijab adorning. Smoga Istiqamah. InshaAllah. Love ya bestie!

arwah cik mail

Al-fatihah. Semoga Allah swt mencucuri rahmat yang tak terhingga buat cik mail disana. Ya Allah. kuatkanlah hati ibu saudaraku, kurniakanlah kebahagiaan dunia akhirat buatnya.

p/s: havent slept since last night. off to bed early. slm

Qiamulail Masjid Besi

22nd ramadhan...

the last 10 nights of ramadhan has arrived...... anda da mula rase sdeh? tahuuuu sy juga rasaaaa T_T. sooonnnn Ramadhan bakal dirindui lg... dan lagi... dan lagi....;( tp rasa rindu tu slalu unik ;) .... alhamdulillah, we managed to spend the night at Masjid Tuanku Mizan Zainal Abidin or also known by the locals as Masjid Besi. Starting with Magrib, Isya' and terawikh. then we went back to get some sleep before waking up later for qiamulail. started at 3am n ended at 5am. Sahur was provided too.. such a beautiful feeling to have spent the night there with friends n other jemaah s well. Alhamdulillah all praises to Allah. there was also kuliah subuh after fajr prayer n ended around 7.30. indah sgt dpt tgk sunrise dr masjid yg mmg dah indah! oh! that masjid crush  again!;').......

smoga usaha 10 malam terakhir ini istiqamah Ya Allah. Rindu!

very 1st tasbih

all da way from Macca, Thank u Maiza.... n thank u sbb tolong sampai kan doa dan salam rindu disana. ;')

As Sajdah- ayat 30

فَأَعْرِضْ عَنْهُمْ وَانتَظِرْ إِنَّهُم مُّنتَظِرُونَ

Oleh itu, janganlah engkau hiraukan mereka, dan tunggulah (kesudahan mereka), sesungguhnya mereka pun menunggu (kesudahanmu).

jgn ade benci.;)

i used to love seeing people so much b4. since da biasa buat kerja sorg kadang2 rasa mcm xde mood nak beramah mesra. lama jugak berfikir knapa berubah mcm ni tp mcm xtahu knape. so fikir punya fikir, mungkin tanpa niat ade simpan perasaan xsuke or benci kat org. jadi, muasabahlah diri jom. mungkin kita x sedar. astaghfirullahalazim.

1) Jaga solat dan lakukan ibadah-ibadah khusus dan umum yang lain.

2) Sentiasa bersangka baik terhadap semua orang (walaupun kita perlu berwaspada setiap masa).

3) Sentiasa memberikan senyuman ikhlas kepada orang di sekeliling kita.

4) Banyakkan bersedekah, samada dalam bentuk wang, senyuman, bantuan tenaga, masa, nasihat, idea, pandangan, sokongan moral dan doa yang berterusan.

5) Sentiasa memperbanyakkan sabar. Nabi s. a. w. pernah berpesan supaya mencari 144 sebab sebelum kita memarahi orang.

6) Sentiasa ceria apabila berjumpa dengan orang lain. Pastikan setiap orang seronok berinteraksi dengan kita.

7) Pamerkan perasaan sayang dan sentiasa sayang-menyayangi antara satu dengan yang lain. Bentuk dan pamerkan sahsiah yang positif setiap masa. Peribadi yang kurang sopan akan menyebabkan orang lain rasa mual terhadap kita.

9) Amalkan sunnah-sunnah harian setiap masa dan insyaAllah orang lain akan tertarik kepada kita.

10) Jika wujud sebarang perasaan sombong atau benci terhadap orang lain, terus ingatkan diri kita tentang mati. Kita mudah insaf dan balik ke pangkal jalan apabila mengingati mati.

11) Sentiasa syukur dan redha atas pemberian Allah swt.

12) Sentiasa memberi salam dan ucap selamat kepada orang lain. Pemberian salam akan mengukuhkan hubungan sesama manusia.

13) Pamerkan simpati kepada setiap individu-individu yang memerlukan simpati dan perhatian.

14) Jadilah pendengar dan kawan yang setia.

15) Sampaikan berita baik tentang orang lain dan sembunyikan kelemahan atau keburukan orang lain.

16) Sentiasalah bermaaf-maafan sebelum berpisah dengan seseorang dan iringi perpisahan dengan doa.

Terlebih dahulu baiki diri untuk menarik perhatian orang lain terhadap diri kita, kita perlu terlebih dahulu menyayangi dan memperbaiki diri kita.

ps: source

;)

marriage is not a race. It's a journey. And being in love and being married are two different things 

di ambang ramadhan

was a bit late for the majlis ilmu. syukur Allah masih beri kesempatan utk duduk mendengar bersama mereka yang hadir ke Masjid UPM. tersenyum tgk bnyk kete td dah tau musti ramai kat dalam heee... anyways, the speaker was one of the lucky person who made effort to join last Mavi Marmara mission. recall the incident? so he shared his experience the moment tentera israel merempuh masuk kapal derg. they tortured him. that moment he told himself.. kenapa x minta perlindungan dr Allah skang? so he repeated kalimah "Hasbunallah wa ni’mal wakil" which means "Allah is Sufficient for us, and He is the Best Disposer of affairs". even derang still pijak badan dia lepas tu. dia mmg x rasa sakit da. sampai terlintas kat fikiran dia yg mungkin dia da mati. so he highlighted the kalimah n remind us to practice. ask from Allah not only in time of hardship. All the time. becuz Allah tu maha pemurah maha penyanyang. TRUE! 

p/s: since kes2 serangan trhdp perempuan menjadi2. pls pls pls jgn jalan sorang! sy tahu sy pn suke jalan sorg. jgn panic repeat "Hasbunallah wa ni’mal wakil". okay.;( love

Usrah

da lama x spend time join usrah. Alhamdulillah lepas bukak puasa td ade rezeki singgah surau ngn derg... Malam ni kupas SURAH Ash-Shaff (Barisan). Cuma sempat 4 ayat dr ayat 10 hingga 13. InshaAllah..

Antara persoalan yg timbul tentang tafsiran berjihad di jalan Allah dgn jiwamu. Bagaimana setiap kali Allah perumapakan keindahan syurga itu dgn simbol "sungai-sungai yang mengalir dibawahnya". Apekah yg dimaksudkan dgn kemenangan yg dekat. Benarkah hari yang ditunggu2 iaitu zaman kebangkitan islam dibawah perjuangan imam mahadi dan turunnya nabi isa pasa akhir zaman itu adalah diri kita. kebangkitan diri kita sniri yang menentukan waktu "kejadian yg ditunggu-tunggu itu".

p/s: InshaAllah.

ibu bapa

Ibubapa Menurut al-Sunnah.

Terdapat banyak hadis sahih yang menerangkan kedudukan ibubapa di dalam Islam dan tuntutan untuk berbuat baik kepada mereka. Berikut dikemukakan sebahagian daripada hadis-hadis tersebut diikuti dengan penjelasan tentang petunjuk hukum dan pengajaran daripadanya:

   1.      Keredhaan Allah Terletak Pada Keredhaan Ibubapa.
   2.      Derhaka Kepada Ibubapa Termasuk Dosa Besar.
   3.      Ibu Lebih Utama Berbanding Ayah.
   4.      Kepentingan Menggembirakan Ibubapa.
   5.      Wajib Meminta Izin Ibubapa Sekalipun Dalam Urusan Agama.
   6.      Kehinaan Anak Yang Tidak Berbuat Baik Kepada Ibubapa Yang Lanjut Umur.
   7.      Tidak Boleh Membenci Dan Memutuskan Hubungan Dengan Ibubapa.
   8.      Doa Ibubapa Pasti Dikabulkan.
   9.      Anak Yang Berbuat Baik Kepada Ibubapanya Memiliki Darjat Yang Istimewa.
  10.     Dikabulkan Doa Anak Yang Berbuat Baik Kepada Ibubapa.
  11.     Ibubapa Memiliki Hak Terhadap Sebahagian Harta Anak.
  12.     Ibubapa Memiliki Hak Dalam Pemilihan Pasangan Hidup Anak. 

p/s: source 

Muslim Women

And say to the believing women that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty; that they should not display their zeenah (charms, or beauty and ornaments) except what (must ordinarily) appear thereof; that they should draw their khimar (veils) over their bosoms and not display their zeenah except to their husbands, their fathers .... and that they should not strike their feet so as to draw attention to their hidden zeenah (ornaments). (24:31-32)

O Prophet! Tell your wives and daughters and the believing women that they should draw over themselves their jilbab (outer garments) (when in public); this will be more conducive to their being recognized (as decent women) and not harassed. But God is indeed oft-forgiving, most merciful. (33:59)

And know that women advanced in years, who no longer feel any sexual desire incur no sin if they discard their thiyab (outer garments), provided they do not aim at a showy display of their zeenah (charms or beauty). But it is better for them to abstain (from this); and God is all-hearing, all-knowing. (24:60)

Abu-d-Dardaa’

“If only you knew what you will certainly see upon your death, you would never again eat a single bite out of a craving appetite, and you would never again drink an extra sip of water for the pleasure of unquenchable and insatiable thirst.
Hence, you will remain outdoor in perpetuity, bewildered and awaiting the unexpected, and you will never again seek comfort in a shelter or seek a shade. You will wander aimlessly and climb the hilltops of every mountain, you will look up towards the heavens and beseech your Lord for mercy, and you will beat on your chest and cry endlessly, and you will wish that you were a little vegetable – a plant which is protected to grow, and then plucked to be eaten by a hungry person passing along.”

ny's eve

already had plans for ur 2012 new year's eve? how bout this.... 

girlfriends are planning for this.... its the best time to gather ramai2 kn? xanadu!!! im in!!!. so why not kita jumpa kt shah alam nnti? jom! InshaAllah hanya dgn izin Allah. ;)

Hadith

The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) reported that the devil said to God: “I shall continue to lead Thy servants astray as long as their spirits are in their bodies.” And God replied: “(Then) I shall continue to pardon them as long as they ask for My forgiveness.

[Al-Tirmidhi, Hadith 742]


"The Prophet (saw) said, "Do not delay in three matters. Prayer, when the Azan has been called. Burial, when a person has died. Marriage, when the right candidate has been found."


footnote: i pray all of u have a nice day! ;)

Tetap matahari dan bulan yg sama

kali ni sempat luang masa turut serta penghuni bumi yang lain menyaksikan fenomena gerhana bulan penuh jam 10.30 mlm. sempat solat sunat gerhana sempat sujud syukur. alhamdulillah..alhamdulillah.. alhamdulillah. andai tiada lagi hari esok... istimewa  fenomena sebegini seolah ade connection antara manusia ini dengan manusia yg lain. mmg sebenarnya ada cuma saat2 begini paling terasa.;).... xckup kejadian yg indah, perasaan juga indah2 belaka. hehehe... ok apakah bahasa ini seumpama sasterawan?...

rasa indah bila kita tahu manusia di tempat berbeza masih pandang matahari yg sama, bulan yg sama, bintang dan langit yg sama. 

Malacca-Selangor-Penang. tambah si stef disabah. blum dipelusuk luar negara nun.

p/s: hmm tu je sbenanya nak ckp. just nak ckp hati ini rasa indah. HAHHAHAHAHAH! motif?..ok bye.

Calamity

Mom once said my feelings my emotions are always extreme. dr kecik hingga da besar. mmg tak leh control perangai and reactions.When im mad, i get really mad. sometimes to the extend of throwing things/bad words. When im sad, i cried many nights. when i hated something or some1 i tend to show it, like obviously benciiii ( buat muka, buat bodo, sumpah seranah,benci lama2). when i want something so bad, i dont care how.. i still want it.... yes, that was who i used to be. im not sure bout now, but at least i know i've changed a bit. which part dont ask. hahaah

Recently, had a big argument with one of my research team (yeah, xsah x gado... ako mmg kaki gadoh (T_T) !). nolah ni bukan sengaja cari pasal apa ni isu org besar. Like the old days, when i get upset with some1.. i did nothing yet i'd stay away. when my mouth starts to mumbling nak kutuk2 org, dalam fikiran dah terlanjur ni baik ako diam skang takot nyesal. sumpah takot menyesal. da byk kali kena. hahahah pdn muka kn?! hehe... but mind u... ako lari bukan ako takot, bukan sebb ako salah. tp sebb nk jaga diri ni. nak jaga mulut ni, nk jaga muka ni, supaya org tgk x sakit hati. becuz bila  xsuka semua ako tunjuk. kesian pulak kat org.... jadi kat sini i think, im doing something good for me n for those around me. So, running away is not always coward. when things get normal, i am normal again. see?? its just a matter of time. BUT, yess running does not work all the time. tambah2 bila da besar. da matang skit aiceh. Seriously, that day.. i confronted our problems. discuss about it properly. it was a short argument yet alhamdulillah both of us ended forgiving each other. n hoping things wud get better, like before (xpecaya ako buat. sila percaya skrang wowot!). im cool now. no longer feel the heartache or rasa bersalah yang x surut2. but guess the other person is not acting cool at all. decided not to talk to me? huh.. hahah do watever u wish i will still talk to u as nothing ever happened. im confident i can do that (ciss since when ako blaja jadi cool entah). ok2, thats not the main point here. The thing is u gotta make sure u sincerely forgive people. When u feel somthing is wrong quickly find solution, ask y. did i hurt u? did i do anything wrong to upset u? ask it to their face. stop talking behind peoples back c'mon we are all grown ups now. THATS HOW U CONTROL UR REACTION. n say sorry for the things u did n u regret it. barulah terkawal skit perangai childish tu ye adik2. Now da boleh buang jauh2 perangai extreme sekalian. Cool lebih baik.;p

footnote 1: i just got to know somebody from my degree years dok jaja cerita about me. like seriously may i know y? ( hot ke ako org nk cita2 n warned org telling that becareful perangai dia mcmni2. what makes u think u know me? i dont think i bother about u pn. ok fine. i forgive u. just xyahlah buat lg at least jgnlah sampai balik kat telinga ako ni hoi. hahahha)

footnote 2: InshaAllah, moga diri ini menjadi lebih baik. lebih dewasa. 

1433H

Alhamdulillah..... Selesai sudah 1432H...Segala yang terjadi dijadikan iktibar. semoga tahun baru ini lebih baik dr tahun sebelumnya. Semoga seluruh umat islam mendapat manfaat terbaik buat diri mereka dan keluarga. Amin.

a.w.i.f.e.

Jamharah Khutah al-‘Arab, 1/145

‘Abd al-Malik (RA) said: “When ‘Awf ibn Muhallim al-Shaybani, one of the most highly respected leaders of the Arab nobility during the jahiliyyah, married his daughter Umm Iyas to al-Harith ibn ‘Amr al-Kindi, she was made ready to be taken to the groom, then her mother, Umamah came into her, to advise her and said:

‘O my daughter, if it were deemed unnecessary to give you this advice because of good manners and noble descent, then it would have been unnecessary for you, because you posses these qualities, but it will serve as a reminder to those who are forgetful, and will help those who are wise.

‘O my daughter, if a woman were able to do without a husband by virtue of her father’s wealth and her need for her father, then you of all people would be most able to do without a husband, but women were created for men just as men were created for them.

‘O my daughter, you are about to leave the home in which you grew up, where you first learned to walk, to go to a place you do not know, to a companion to whom you are unfamiliar. By marrying you, he has become a master over you, so be like a servant to him, and he will become like a servant to you.

‘Take from me ten qualities, which will be a provision and a reminder for you.

‘The first and second of them are: be content in his company, and listen to and obey him, for contentment brings peace of mind, and listening to and obeying one’s husband pleases Allah.

‘The third and fourth of them are: make sure that you smell good and look good; he should not see anything ugly in you, and he should not smell anything but a pleasant smell from you. Kohl is the best kind of beautification to be found, and water is better than the rarest perfume.

‘The fifth and sixth of them are: prepare his food on time, and keep quiet when he is asleep, for raging hunger is like a burning flame, and disturbing his sleep will make him angry.

‘The seventh and eight of them are: take care of his servants (or employees) and children, and take care of his wealth, for taking care of his wealth shows that you appreciate him, and taking care of his children and servants shows good management.

‘The ninth and tenth of them are: never disclose any of his secrets, and never disobey any of his orders, for if you disclose any of his secrets you will never feel safe from his possible betrayal, and if you disobey him, his heart will be filled with hatred towards you.

‘Be careful, O my daughter, of showing joy in front of him when he is upset, and do not show sorrow in front of him when he is happy, because the former shows a lack of judgment whilst the latter will make him unhappy.

‘Show him as much honour and respect as you can, and agree with him as much as you can, so that he will enjoy your companionship and conversation.

‘Know, O my daughter, that you will not achieve what you would like to until you put his pleasure before your own, and his wishes before yours, in whatever you like and dislike. And may Allah choose what is best for you and protect you.”

hampir ke penghujung dunia

يَكُونُ اخْتِلَافٌ عِنْدَ مَوْتِ خَلِيفَةٍ فَيَخْرُجُ رَجُلٌ مِنْ أَهْلِ الْمَدِينَةِ هَارِبًا إِلَى مَكَّةَ فَيَأْتِيهِنَاسٌ مِنْ أَهْلِ مَكَّةَ فَيُخْرِجُونَهُ وَهُوَ كَارِهٌ فَيُبَايِعُونَهُ بَيْنَ الرُّكْنِ وَالْمَقَامِ

وَيُبْعَثُ إِلَيْهِ بَعْثٌ مِنْ أَهْلِ الشَّامِ فَيُخْسَفُ بِهِمْ بِالْبَيْدَاءِ بَيْنَ مَكَّةَ وَالْمَدِينَةِ

“Akan terjadi perselisihan setelah wafatnya seorang pemimpin, maka keluarlah seorang lelaki dari penduduk Madinah mencari perlindungan ke Mekkah, lalu datanglah kepada lelaki ini beberapa orang dari penduduk Mekkah, lalu mereka membai’at Imam Mahdi secara paksa, maka ia dibai’at di antara Rukun dengan Maqam Ibrahim (di depan Ka’bah). Kemudian diutuslah sepasukan manusia dari penduduk Syam, maka mereka dibenamkan di sebuah daerah bernama Al-Baida yang berada di antara Mekkah dan Madinah.” (HR Abu Dawud 3737) - source

footnote: muasabah dan perbaiki diri. kita sudah hampir ke penghujung.

on different tradition

the moment im writing this, i am h*ll sleepy. the fact that this lappy is acting extravaganza cranky.... yes! i am pissed off too...... sleepy n mad at the same time. *takbir raya haji kat tv sudah* - xjadi da nk mara =.=.

- will be waking up in a Bangi morning, will perform solah Aidiladha as a musafir at Masjid hijau. InshaAllah.... segalanya dgn izin Allah. Therefore to friends and Family: Selamat Hari Raya Aidiladha. Semoga Aidiladha tahun ini lebih memberi kesan positif dalam diri stiap kita.


footnote: we had chinese muslim dishes for dinner. Mohd Chan Abdullah. my 1st time.;).. will upload photos.